How Can You Tell If She's Attracted Newsletter


Well, first things first, I am switching over from Bloglet to Aweber, a professional e-mail autoresponder that I purchased last week. I'm setting it up currently and will also be using it to deploy the Asian Playboy Seduction E-courses as well as my FREE newsletter.

Bloglet is a cool, free service that informs subscribers when I've updated and posted, but alas, it is rather limited when it comes to actual newsletters (trust me, it's actually very exhausting copy and pasting hundreds of subscriber e-mails into the e-mail box).


I'll be switching to Aweber over the weekend and I apologize in advance for the inconvenience (of clicking a single link) but I hope to have my next newsletter out before the end of next week when I fly to Montreal for a 2on1 bootcamp. If you don't opt-in, you won't receive the [Confidential] Asian Playboy Case Files Issue #3 for next week.


Now, seguing back to newsletters, I subscribe to a few to keep up to date in the seduction and dating community. A lot are a rehash of things I already knew, but then there are a few golden nuggets here and there. Sometimes, though, I lose sight of what it was like to be a newbie when my Attraction Radar wasn't as fine tuned.

When I was JUST starting to see the code of the societal programming and matrix and how amazing it was to tell when attraction was being flipped.

I was reminded of this when a young Asian man started to ask me my advice on a girl he was interested in, but he couldn't actually tell. Well, long story short, it sounded like she was hitting him over the head with IOIs (Indicators of Interest), but he couldn't see those signals despite how clear (in retrospect) they actually were.

That's probably what I'll discuss in the Ask APB section of my newsletter (finetuning your Attraction Radar and discerning a woman's level of interest), but here's a freebie for you guys from David DeAngelo, the first ebook I ever got (aff.) many moons ago on the subject of dating, seduction and attracting women when I was still a wet behind the ears newbie, just starting to learn the intricacies of women, their chick logic, and their attraction switches.

The tip is actually very obvious, but like the young high school lad, sometimes you have to take step back in order to see the forest for the trees.


Signed, Asian Playboy

Dating Tips: How To Tell If She's Interested

-By David DeAngelo

OK, I have a quick trick question for you.

That's right, I said a quick TRICK question.

How can you tell if a woman is interested in you?

Answer quickly.

So what gives?

Why am I asking you a trick question?


Because I'm trying to make you THINK.

I'm sure that, just like me, you've read a hundred dating tips and articles that say things like:

"If she tilts her head to one side and strokes her neck, that's a sign of interest..."

"If she licks her lips in a longing fashion, that means she's interested in you..."

"If she laughs a lot, makes positive eye contact, and touches you often, then she likes you..."


I remember when I first read all this stuff.

I thought to myself "Wow, cool! I must have been missing these hints because I didn't know to look for them. Now I'll know when a woman is interested in me...".

Well, there was ONE SMALL problem...

The problem is that women display these MAJOR INTEREST signals in about 1 of 1,000 interactions with men...

And there was one BIG problem...

That problem was that none of the damn dating tips I read said a single thing about how to MAKE women give you these signals.

In other words, what I realized is that average guys like me who don't get "approached" by women need to learn not only WHAT to look for, but, more importantly, how to actually CREATE ATTRACTION in women so they GAVE me these signals in the FIRST PLACE.

So let me share with you some dating tips on how to MAKE women feel ATTRACTION for you... and then I'll share some ideas on what to LOOK FOR to tell if a woman is interested.

And my ideas will be a WEEEEEE BIT different than the ones you read in your flirting books.

OK, so you're out at a bar with a few friends, and it's time to meet some interesting women.

You look around, and none of the hot young babes in there seem to be tilting their heads to one side, looking you in the eye, and licking their lips... so you decide to DO SOMETHING.

What do most guys do in this situation?


1) Nothing, because they're scared, or...

2) Something typical, like ask a girl to dance, or if he can buy her a drink.

If you're guilty of doing these, raise your hand.

Then take your raised hand, and slap yourself silly. Not too hard. But silly.

Here's a thought for you...

If you put 100 guys in a bar with one beautiful women sitting alone, and you say to all 100 of the guys "Hey guys, which one of you can walk over to that woman and do something to make that woman feel a SEXUAL ATTRACTION for you?"... I'd say that if you're LUCKY, one of them will claim that he can do it.

In other words, for most guys, the idea of walking up to a girl they don't know and doing something that will TRIGGER an attraction is completely outside of their universe.

This is one of the reasons why guys do things like asking girls to dance, buying them drinks, etc.

Now, something you must understand when it comes to women and ATTRACTION is that women don't feel ATTRACTION for WUSSIES.


It isn't logical (at least, on the surface).

But once you start to "get it", everything changes. Your entire perspective changes once you "get it", and your results change instantly as well.

So here's a dating tip for you to try:


That's right "mess with" them.


Bust on.

Be difficult.


Because it INSTANTLY communicates that:

1) You could care less what she thinks of you.

2) You're a fun person.

3) You're unpredictable.

4) You're a bit of a "wild card"

5) You GET IT.

Now, you might be shaking your head right now and saying "That's doesn't make any sense. Why would a woman feel attracted to me if I mess with her instead of being nice?".

That's a good question.

But for now, take the hand that you slapped yourself with earlier, and slap yourself again.


I want you to STOP following your "be nice and kiss ass" instincts when you first meet a woman, and instead practice MESSING WITH HER.

Make fun of something.

Go to hand her something, then pull it away at the last second.

Shake your head in despair and tell her that she's screwing up her chances with you.

Say something Cocky & Funny, then turn around and walk away before she can respond to your face.

Can ya feel me, dog?

Now the good stuff...


Well this is what you were looking for, so here it is...

I'm going to give you a stupid-proof formula for knowing whether or not a woman is interested in you.

Here it is:

1) You engage her.

2) She engages you back.

Yes, that's it. Please stop the applause long enough that I can finish. You can clap later.

I know that this sounds a little "Duh-ish", but stay with me here.

If I walk into a restaurant, and the hostess asks me how many are in my party, and I answer with "Well, there are three of us. I guess there will be FOUR if YOU join us..." and she laughs at my joke, then IT'S ON!

If I'm standing at the bar, and the woman next to me bumps into my arm, and I turn and say "Hey, watch it, OK? Keep some space here, I need at least a foot of room..." in a serious tone of voice... and she starts playing along by smiling and moving away from me then back again playfully, then IT'S ON!

If I'm talking to a woman that I met at the magazine rack, and I ask her "What's with that huge purse of yours? You got a dog in there or something?" and she starts laughing and making excuses, then IT'S ON!

In a nutshell, what I'm trying to say is:

1) Stop looking around for signals from women that they're "interested" in you.

2) Stop CARING whether or not a particular woman is interested in you.

3) Instead, start TRIGGERING the interest, and watching to see if women ENGAGE. If they do, then assume that IT'S ON!

As long as you use how she's responding to what YOU do as your gauge, then you'll have a MUCH easier time spotting the "she wants me" clues...



...if you want DOZENS AND DOZENS of great dating tips and ideas for making women feel that powerful "chemistry" with you, then go download a copy of my online ebook here:

Free Dating Tips Newsletter And Download eBook (aff.)

This tool took me countless hours to develop...

Stop beating your head against the wall, and start taking advantage of the years I've spent learning this stuff. You'll be SO glad you did.

And I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,
David DeAngelo

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