The irony, of course, is that it's your personality (your Game) that allows you to successfully woo, court, date, and seduce women. And that's where and why you have to convey a personality stronger and more overwhelming than any kind of preconceived stereotype that she might have of you.
He'd gotten her number from a mutual friend, and asked for a date. His efforts to sweet-talk her didn't go well. He was cocky and full of "intellectual jive," she told me. But she agreed to meet him for lunch.There are two very important elements to pulling off a high probability approach: the non-verbal aspect and the verbal aspect.
When he picked her up, her first impression of him was "how short he seems" and "how unimpressive he looks." Still, she decided to set aside those first thoughts, and as she spent time with him, she saw through his wild confidence, and found a sincere sense of purpose. "He grew in stature," she said.
I've told this story to my teenage daughters when they've been quick to dismiss someone at first glance. The woman's name was Coretta Scott. The man, whom she eventually married, was Martin Luther King Jr.
-Jeffry Zaslow, Wall Street Journal
- The non-verbal aspect: Things like how you look and your body language. You can't change whether you look like a male model, your skin tone, or your height, but you are in control of how you dress, how you walk, how you hold yourself, and your facial expressions. All these very discrete, but vital slices of information that she's collecting, storing, and ultimately judging about you.
- The verbal aspect: This occurs right after that (hopefully) movie moment of the approach and you've opened your mouth. The clock's ticking, she's already started to form judgements on you based purely on how you look, and now it's time to verbally impress her with intriguing questions and scintillating story-telling.
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