"As for "opening lines", my feeling is that if a woman has you on her short-list of guys she'd like to know better, then it doesn't matter much what you say, so long as you say something, and make some sort of connection."Hello from England
-Adam
Thanks for the e-book preview, which favorably impressed me. It is simply and clearly written. I like your emphasis on the non-verbal aspect of this business: your advice chimes in with my own experience.
I recently retired where I worked in an office (my career was spent there). This gave me opportunity to get to know various young women who came and went, mostly student types. I have consistently found that being aware of what you're doing non-verbally, really makes a difference.
As for "opening lines", my feeling is that if a woman has you on her short-list of guys she'd like to know better, then it doesn't matter much what you say, so long as you say something, and make some sort of connection. Once that's established, if she's still interested, then within certain very broad limits, it doesn't matter much what you chat about, so long as you're saying something, and forming some sort of bond. So you can relax, do your thing, and see what happens.
I have found that when women are with someone they like, they are very forgiving. Just avoid being a jerk, be the gentleman, and see what happens. And if nothing happens, well that's life.
I should point out that most of the women I've flirted with, are young enough to be my daughters now, yet they respond better to me, than young women did when I was young myself. In the old days, I only had to get within 100 yards of a girl I fancied, and she'd threaten to call for the police if I got any closer. Ok, I exagggerate, but you know what I mean. I do better now--just a little more progress needed.
Well, this is already longer than I planned to make it, so I'd better stop.
Regards,
Adam Anonymous
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