We all have different personality types, tastes, interests, and a myriad of characteristics which heavily influence the types of women we are drawn to. For this reason, it makes the process of dating women much easier when you have an idea of what you are looking for.
There are men who frequent nightclubs or bars that want a long term relationship but end up disappointed in the quality of relationships which come from such places. It isn't that these men are romantically challenged (although this may very well be the case) but the problem is more so in the selection of women that they are choosing to game.
This is why it is important to get an idea of what you're looking for in a woman. To help you get the most out of your interactions with women is a quick guide for what you can do to maximize the success of what ever you are attempting to accomplish with women.
It is possible to be able to game all kinds of women with the potential to make the relationship casual or serious but not screening women could prove to be a fruitless endeavor. The two important steps you need to take in order to KNOW THYSELF, after the jump...
Determine what kind of relationship you want
Like most things in life you should know what you want and aim to achieve it. This means that if you want to engage in sexual activity with random women then it would be beneficial to you to prepare for this kind of lifestyle.
Don't treat the women that you meet as though you are about to marry them because it sends the wrong signals and you'll end up dealing with more than you bargained for. Instead, you could project more sexuality and spontaneity with fun being the basis for your interaction.
Alternatively, if you're looking for a long-term relationship then you should also prepare for this by making yourself the best person you can be. You want to put all of your best attributes forward and work on the attributes that are not so desirable.
As opposed to hot game which casual sex usually entails, you should focus more on how you carry yourself and how you want to be perceived. The reason for this is because a long-term relationship has no room for bullshitters and is not so much about game but about who you are as a person.
No matter what you're looking for, it is necessary to know what you want so that you can get the best results with the least amount of frustration. The most important thing to have is experience, but without that you should prepare meticulously until your skills are naturalized.
Choose the right environment
It makes no sense to join a book club to meet women if you don't like reading. It also makes no sense to continually go to Whole Foods to meet women if you don't give a rats ass about eating healthy. Sure you can go ahead and meet women at these places but you may not be so compatible.
Choose places that YOU want to be at.
If you meet a woman at a hip hop show and both of you enjoy hip hop then that makes the interaction much more easy to progress. You shouldn't make your way out to meet women if you've already developed your game to a point of competency.
Women are drawn to men with their own attractive lifestyle and what better way to meet attractive women in places that you frequent to begin with?
Knowing what kind of relationship you want and being in the right place to meet women will elevate your success with women. Dating women shouldn't be a chore but an enjoyable experience for everybody.
You shouldn't make your selection of women too specific since it limits the possibilities out there for you, but when you know where you're heading with a woman it smoothes out the sometimes tedious process of gaming women.
Labels: Inner Game, Long Term Relationship