Half the battle in being successful at seduction is having and knowing your logistics. This means doing your research.

After all, if you want to cold approach and pick up classy, beautiful women, you need to do the necessary footwork and find the best venues that cater to them. Sometimes its bars, or clubs, or lounges.

Either way, you need to find out for yourself and firsthand. You'll also need to continually refresh your logistic list as the nightlife has a boom and bust lifecycle. In Los Angeles, it takes a club about 6 months to peak at it's hottest until it gets packed full of douchebags or Community guys at which point they close and "renovate" with a new name and interior decorator.

Slower paced cities could be anyways from 9 months to 1 year. This also includes the rate at which new, attractive women come into and out of the pool of women you can potentially pick up, seduce and/or date.

Anyways, once you've scoped out a place, you'll need to befriend the promoters as well as the bouncers and staff. You also need to dress the part and act like you belong. Because the hotter the venue, the more difficult it is to get in if you don't act or look like you belong.

Another concept to understand is the "Velvet Rope." It's where the clipboard guardians stand ever vigilant at the entrance and guard against the unwashed masses and commoners from gaining entry. In other words... YOU.

If it's harder to get pass than normal venues, you can at least assume the following:

1. You Won't Run Into Other PUAs: The staff is usually on the lookout to weed out those guys who don't look like they belong, so hardcore Community guys and newbies are usually dismissed out of hand.
2. The Ratio Will Be Better: The hotter the club, the more they're always trying to maintain a good ratio of boys to girls. So unless you're running a bootcamp, don't roll deep with your homies.
   
3. There Will Be Hotter Girls: 'nuff said. This also means YOUR passive value (body language, fashion, sexual value) should be equivalent. If you want the woman of your dreams, start by at least dressing the part of her's.
   
4. There Will Be More High Value AMOGs & Good Looking Naturals: Hey, they're there for the same reason as you. Some of these guys will become your best impromptu wings and friends. Others will just try to AMOG the shit out of you, especially if you come off as "easy pickings."
   

And, like I do in all cities I visit, I religiously keep track of the best places to pick up women. And since I'm flying to Sydney for the Australian Master Class as well as to teach a Sydney Bootcamp on Dec 11th, I am going to reveal- for the first time- my actual notes that I took early this year.

Here's one tip that will instantly make your Sydney sarging that much easier. One thing we noticed is that, unlike Los Angeles, there are no "Guest Lists" or Promoters like Hollywood. Instead, they usually had some sort of club card membership. A membership that you could easily get for $20. You won't have to deal with waiting in line or being denied entry.

15 minutes of pre-emptive footwork can save you frustrating hours waiting in line.

I now give you some of the best places to go where you can pick up women in Sydney, Australia:

1. Sydney Marriot: $120/day (AA discount), near King's Cross, nice hotel
2. Lamrock Hostel (on Lamrock in Bondi Beach): cheap at $21, but $12 for 4 hours internet. Located in a residential area, so has no common area, bar, or fun. TV and minifridge.
3. Surfside Hostel (on Hill St in Bondi Beach): VIP rate of $26 in a 8 dorm (got the entire dorm for ourselves), $15 internet for entire day. Common area, younger people. Free alcohol and bus ride to the night's venue. Fun. No TV or minifridge.
4. Wakeup! Hostel: Huge hostel with backpackers from everywhere. Large common areas and cafe with underground, big bar.
   

• The Space: $700AUD ($50 discount), 99 Crown Street, decent sized, decently professional, in King's Cross

1. The Gaff (on Oxford St in Sydney): the fun, sexy version of Sydney's Saddle Ranch. Has nothing but hot blond bartenders and go-go dancers in cowgirl outfits. Wet t-shirt contests for guys and girls. Sexually charged. Easily a 25% chance increase in makeout/lay by simply walking in and being aggressive. No C, just D. Lots of expats and backpackers. Two stories, decently big, and smoking patio. Makeouts everywhere. One of us, literally, had a 2 hour liplock session with a 6"1 Brazillian blonde within minutes.
2. Hugo (King's Cross): Linear, but spacious. Classier, very ADD. Does wine service.
3. World Bar (King's Cross): Indie crowd, pretty receptive. Good choice, good talent.
4. Trademark (King's Cross): Bigger club dance area. So-so quality. Might do bottle service.
5. Cargo Bar: Big outdoor patio. Lots of mixed sets. Upper area requires membership ID.

1. Ivy: Even going in at 8:30PM, it was difficult to gain entry. Don't go in pairs. Send in single file. Bigger, classier, louder. William says good Friday venue. Must reserve "birthday party" on Friday or Saturday. Maybe do dinner reservations. Only 3 Asian girls, only 1 Asian guy in the entire establishment. Ratio really good, 3 to 1 girls/guys.
2. Argyle: PUA central. Met a lot of Community guys. Think a bigger, more average version Saddle Ranch. Can do wine service. Bouncer will ask Asians "Where have they been before this." Asked me in 2008, asked Johnny in 2009, and students. True indirect, pure direct, or "cheers" openers. Mixed openers having a harder time working.
3. Favella: Student recommended, didn't go. Does VIP service. Must reserve Thur/Fri.
4. All Night Boogie (Next to The Space): Did not actually go in, but right next to The Space. Late night (2AM+), scrubby, rave club with hot younger chicks.

1. Ivy: Supposedly pretty good, but was closed tonight.
2. Hugo: Goes off. Go in single file or will be denied. Tone down the peacocking. Attractive, more teflon sets.
3. Gold Fish: Loungey place. Wine service. Warmup sets before 12, dead after. Easy entry.
4. Kings Cross Hotel: Dead. Easy entry.
5. Dragonfly: Like the All Night Boogie, but goes off after midnight. Easy entry.
6. Soho: Supposedly goes off after 12, but did not go in.

General Observations:
Johnny & William have both noted that Aussies are mildly prejudicial. Not intensely anti-Asian or anything, but there were some detectable sentiments against blacks and foreigners. Also very, very homophobic.

Also, the alcohol is SUPER weak. Like really, really, pansy weak. Or maybe I've been doing this job too long ;)

In addition, I personally found it easier to sarge in Australia than the States. But there will definitely be some AMOGing. Case in point, I was making out with a girl I had been briefly dating at the Darling Harbor. At night, isolated, and very romantic. A bunch of tall Aussies intentionally went out of their way to AMOG me (literally while we were in the middle of making out), at which point, I simply Ignored and Tooled them out. In short, I'd say there are more Aussie AMOGs, but they're easier to out-AMOG.

Next time around, will also need to dress down. Have 3 collared shirts and good dress shoes. Helps to make reservations the day or two before. Or just not go to the clubs with a bunch of Asian guys ;)

Stay tuned for future editions of "Where to Pick Up Women." Maybe even YOUR city!

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Labels: AMOG BIT Destroyers, E - Evaluate Extract and Escalate, Logistics, Sydney, Where to Pick Up Girls

Getting a girl's phone number is one of the most basic skillsets for a PUA, right after learning how to deal with your Approach Anxiety and learning how to Approach anytime, anywhere.

So before you go out this weekend to hit up the nightclubs and bars, you better know how to get a girl's number. Now, the easiest way to get a girl's phone number is to simply ask for it, but there are also ways to get it that will increase a girl's buying temperature, yet still remain playful and fun.

Watch this instructional video called the "Magic Phone Close" by Gareth Jones, who is an Approach Coach for the 12 Weeks of Fury program as well as the upcoming seminar, iGame: From Text to Sex.

The Magic Phone Close is a fun, flirty way to get a girl's number when you don't have a cellphone handy and only a paper & pen are at hand.

PUA MAGIC IS BACK!
by Gareth Jones

You guys thought PUA Magic was played out and tacky? Well, you’re right. But, the awesome number close that I am about to expose to you all only DISGUISES itself as magic, it’s not actually magic. Here, let me tell you a story:

It was Thanksgiving Day and I was late to work (that‘s what those jerks get for having me work on a holiday). I had woken up on a friend’s couch after having had quite a long night with the Three Bs (bars, booze, and broads) and needed to stop somewhere to buy some toothpaste and a toothbrush.

I decided to stop into a CVS in Hollywood and found it almost completely empty. I retrieved my sundries and proceeded to the checkout only to find a VERY attractive little Mexican girl fairly depressed to be working on the holiday. I opened nonchalantly and we chatted about how miserable it was that The Man was making us work on a holiday.

She immediately lit up from the attention and was practically gushing over everything I said. After about two minutes of comfort-building’ and switch-flippin’, I did Neil Strauss’ “Pick a number between 1 and 10” routine. Having discovered it in The Game, I had been using it incredibly frequently to much success. When she (as expected) chose 7, she was astounded that I could read her mind and begged me to show her another trick.

I told her that I had to run to work but would show her one more. Here’s the script:

“Okay, first we’ll need two pieces of paper and a pen.” She produced the items and I took one piece of paper and a pen.

“Now, how many letters in your name do you have?”

“Five”, she says.

“Okay, and you also have a 10-digit cell phone number, right?”, any idiot can see where this is going.

“Yes”, she says, all aglow with passion and attraction..

“Okay, good. Now, what you need to do take the 10 digits of your phone number and write them vertically, starting with the first number at the top. Here’s how mine will look.”

I write them down and show them to her. She does the same on her piece of paper.

“Great, now take your first name and write it vertically, starting at the top with one letter per number. Like this.” I illustrate it for her and she does the same.

“Now, we trade papers, fold them in half twice and put them in our right front pocket.” She does this and looks at me excitedly.

“Now what?”

“Oh, that’s the trick,” I reply. “I just got your number.” I wink and tell her to have a great day. She bursts out in a huge giggly smile and tells me to call her soon.

This NEVER fails to get a great reaction and very few have flaked from this. The ‘trick’ itself is really flexible and can be set up as little or as much as you’d like. Just remember that this should only be done after significant attraction is built. This isn’t a way to trick her into giving you her number, it’s a way to be cute and give her something to remember.

I’m really sad to give it out, but it’s time for me to move on. That which does not evolve, dies. So, use it well!

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Labels: Buying Temperature, Gareth Jones, Phone Close, Pick Up Artist Tips, Video

Oh, horrors of horrors, I have been Twitter-ified!

After holding out for ages (namely because I happen to think it's one of the inane things ever that I couldn't conceive of actually using) I am now on Twitter.

Guys, convince me that Twitter is actually cooler than I think it is ;)

So if you are interested in following me, well - here I am in all my shining Twitter glory. W00t.

Beware - like the forums and our Facebook Fan Page, it can get a little bit more personal and informal there than I usually am on the blog.

Anticipate weirdness. In 140 characters or less.

Labels: Announcement

It’s 4:49am at the Los Angeles International Airport and I'm huddled beneath my black-red motorcycle jacket, sitting next to a gangly white guy with long, blonde hair in tight black jeans, black cowboy boots, a black v-neck t-shirt and sunglasses giggling at his cell phone like a school girl.

The elderly German couple across the row are eyeing us suspiciously.

He’s begun giggling so hard that I find it within myself to push through the early-morning grogginess and nudge him with my steel-tipped, black motorcycle boots and ask him, “What’s so damn funny?”

He puts his face in his hand, still cracking up, and shoves his Blackberry into view. I lean in to focus on a picture of a very attractive brunette (what we could call ‘a 10’), sitting completely naked and spread-eagle in her bedroom mirror, a picture clearly taken by her own cell phone.

“It’s 5 in the morning,” he says “and I made this girl so horny she couldn’t sleep, so now she’s sending me naked pictures while she plays with herself!”

He is reduced to doubling over in self-empowered laughter while the onlookers frown disapprovingly, assuming he’s either high or insane.

In all fairness, I was the one that put him up to it. My name is JT, although the media knows me as The Asian Playboy.

I am the CEO and Founder of the now world-famous ABCS of Attraction, an Indie Pick-Up company that I started back in 2005 when a mother in Canada contacted me, asking me to teach the tactics and techniques of pickup that I had spent countless hours deciphering and developing (while working for NASA as a rocket scientist) to her son who had been harassed throughout highschool by neo-Nazis.

I am a 5’6” Vietnamese man of average build, spikey black hair with red streaks, and in college I had THE hot, blonde girlfriend. After that relationship, I resolved to find out how it was that I could get women of that caliber while my other Asian friends struggled so much.

It would have been great if I was born tall, dark and handsome. Alas, I'll just have to settle for being short, stunning, and smooth.

“What?” You ask. “A short, average Asian man with a tall blonde girlfriend?? IMPOSSIBLE!”

“Nay, sir.” I say. It is possible and now I travel around the world teaching men how to meet and attract these women: the women of their dreams.

Back in the airport, the longhaired rocker type in hysterics to my left is Gareth Jones, a coach for my company, and I’ve given him the arduous task of breaking down text-message flirting to an ABCs formula that we can teach called "iGame: From Text to Sex."

He’s been experimenting non-stop for weeks and has just figured out the pattern, leaving him in an Archimedes-like state of ‘Eureka!’

Unfortunately, it’s happening in LAX as we wait for the plane to Seattle at the butt crack of dawn next to a perturbed group of retirees from The Fatherland.

We’re leaving for the weekend to teach men the skills to attract any woman they want, while becoming the man that she wants. Using psychology and evolutionary biology, I have developed a series of steps- called the ABCDEF Structure- involved in meeting, attracting and educing a woman.

No, ‘educing’ is not a typo. Educing is a process by which something is developed, for instance, a relationship. Seducing is the idea of tricking someone into doing something and we don’t roll like that.

We are not seducers, we are femininthusiasts. Sex-positive feminists, if you will. I see you have questions and I’ll get to those in a minute.

We arrive in Seattle to rain. Torrential rain. Coming from 78 degree California weather to frigid downpour is disheartening and the 9am cab ride to the hotel is silent as we are both gazing out the windows and undoubtedly considering travel logistics to and from the clubs with the women we will pick up.

Little do we know, the women he and I will pick up are going to be a matching pair of six-foot models (mine being a fitness-obsessed, blond Amazon and his a tall, tanned brunette). Knowing this would’ve made the cab ride much brighter, but I’ll save that story for another time.

He and I reach the hotel and are taken to our room on the 20th floor where, later, we will meet this weekend’s three students and begin to form a very strong brotherly and emotional bond that will last a lifetime.

Our first student, Sam, arrives fifteen minutes early to the hotel. He is a well-dressed and well-spoken Asian that smiles a lot and striking in his calm This weekend Sam- who was completely inexperienced in the ways of bars, clubs, and women- will use our Kickstart Opener and have a gorgeous brunette so hot that she’ll be straddling him while they’re making out in our private booth.

Security will have to apologetically step in and tell her she can’t be giving “those kind of dances” in the club.

Our second student, Adam, comes right on time at 4pm. He starts out a fairly bland and passive Asian guy with a profound inability to be sexually dominant. As if life wasn't already unfair enough, the poor soul is also a computer programmer. By Night 2 of the bootcamp, he will be the one to take home a stunning little Asian girl for his first ever club pull.

He will be late the next day because he is very tired, but also very, very successful.

Sebastian is our third student and is 45 minutes late. He will be late for everything. He arrives at the hotel flustered and without his clothes for tonight. He speaks broken English and he wields the lifeless “Asian Poker Face.” Sebastian is an all too familiar case when it comes to FOBs from the old country.

Born into a wealthy family from a 3rd world Asian country, he isn't used to the 21st century way of dating where victory in the battle of the sexes is achieved through skill, charisma, and charm.

It will be this old world, misogynistic attitude that we have to crack.

Despite some of the hang-ups, the weekend is a success for Gareth and I. We have spent three, very long, very arduous days teaching these students as much as we can, pouring our brains into theirs and hoping little ideas and tactics grab on.

We’ve stayed up all hours of the night rehashing techniques and considering sticking points and woken up very early... okay... reasonably early… to meet the students and give them the next day’s lecture.

It is our goal to give them the answers. If they have problem being dominant, we teach them how to be. If they have a problem conversing, we teach them how and if they have a problem taking what’s given to them, we teach them that, too.

We’ve pushed all that we can, hoping that the motivation we provide will not travel back to LA on the plane with us and we also hope that we have done our job to make these men feel better about who they are and what their place in this world is.

Pick Up is about connecting with the other people on the very outskirts of your life and all weekend we have tried to teach these guys how to make those connections.

Despite all the number closing and kiss closing and club pulls, the most important connections that have been made have been between us and the students, and those types of connections last forever.

Take charge of your dating lifestyle have options in your life. And become the MAN you were always DESTINED to become.

Join me in the next Seattle Bootcamp in 2010.

Labels: Lay Report, Pics

Sydney, Australia, November/December 2009. This coming November & December the Australian PUA Community, will host the country’s biggest event on how to attract women, the “Australia Attraction Master Class Tour” featuring several of the world’s best Attraction Coaches and Pick Up Artists (PUAs) in action.

The event, aimed at turning its target audience -- 25-40 year-old young men -- into genuine lady killers, will take place in Sydney and Melbourne all day Saturday and Sunday

During a weekend extravaganza, the men of Australia will have the unique opportunity to hear about the “field” experience of the world’s leading dating, attraction and seduction experts. Super hot topics like singles’ secrets on how to start a conversation, to how to build attraction, close the deal and the ultimate tips to make a women want you will fill the program.

For the uninitiated, all these coaches and experts are man who strives for better romantic and sexual success with women through self-improvement. PUAs and their supporters form a subculture called the “Attraction Community.”

“The conference is going to be unprecedented and should really put the Australian attraction community on the map. Attraction coaching is a billion dollar industry in the U.S. and now Europe is catching on. For Australia, this is the first such event,” says Gary Goodbloke, Media Coordinator, Get Hitched.

This star-quality line up of international Guest Speakers, means Australian men will have a chance to undergo a life-changing transformation as the stars unveil their products and packages teaching men how to connect with beautiful women face-to face.

The International lineup of Speakers includes Vince Kelvin the world famous superstar Pick Up Artist, JT the Asian Playboy the Worlds #1 Dating Coach for Asian Men, Badboy Seduction Guide from Europe, Pickup Asia gives you the insights into Speed Seduction from Hong Kong and the charismatic Will H from the USA.

The website (www.attractionmasterclasstour.com) boasts several interesting video’s showing how men can approach women in every situation.

Join the Australian Attraction Community on Facebook on the “Attraction Master Class” Group.

Men looking to enhance their dating skills just before the festive season in 2009 are encouraged to take advantage of the unique event via www.social-e-ticket.com.au and Moshtix.

The Master Class will take the form of two conferences, the first in Melbourne on 21st and 22nd November 2009 and the second in Sydney on 5th and 6th December 2009.

For more information please go to the website: www.attractionmasterclasstour.com

Labels: Attraction Master Class, Australia, PUA Summit, Sydney

Podcast Episode For 11/15/09: (complete episode) : Dating Advice : F - Fun or Fake? The Asian American Man's Rite of Passage according to The Asian Playboy.

• Chapter 1: Interviews: A talk with an ABCs of Attraction "12 Weeks of Fury" Student (download this chapter)


• Chapter 2: Dating Advice : F - Fun or Fake? The Asian American Man's Rite of Passage. "What are the 3 things it takes for a boy to turn into a man?" (download this chapter)

Listen to this week's podcast now.


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Labels: 10 Pillars of Inner Strength, Manhood, Podcast

Watch me on Chicago TV on Comcast 248, RCN 175 and WOW 35 on Sunday from noon till 2pm, and will repeat at 6 to 8 pm. My interview will take place during the first hour of the show.

UPDATE (2/5/10):
In Part 1 of this TV interview, I talk about how and why I founded the ABCs of Attraction, how to exude confidence, my ideal girl, how to deal with racism in the pick-up and dating scene, how big is the ABCs of Attaction (programs are held globally in major cities like Los Angeles, San Francisco, New York, Toronto, London, Australia), how the ABCs is the "finishing school for men", Asian parents, emotional intelligence, and how Asian men are underrepresented in high positions of power.


In Part 2 of this TV interview, I talk about my former life as a rocket scientist, how to be rich/powerful/influential, dating & pick-up advice, social obligations, the Kickstart Opener, directing the conversation, getting past the hook point, don't buy girls drinks, what's the ultimate goal in pick-up, helping virgins, dating black girls, what do women think of pick-up, having female assistants during the bootcamp, how being confidence translates to success in all areas of your life and how to contact Asian Playboy at the ABCs of Attraction.



In the meantime, you can watch this PUA Super Trailer until the TV interview goes live and we can put it up:


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Labels: Announcement, Video Reviews

We all get caught up in our own comfort zones and sometimes it works out for us.

But the question you have to ask yourself is, "Have I reached my potential?"

See if this describes YOU:

1. You might be the kind of guy that makes a New Year's resolution but ditches the plan after a few weeks or months.
2. You may have wanted to talk to the attractive woman at the grocery store but didn't because you were afraid of being rejected.
3. You just may be the kind of guy that doesn't know what he wants but knows enough that he wants to make a change.

The opinion people have of you may not be congruent with the view you have of yourself. It's very common for a group of friends to put your social status at the bottom of the totem pole because that is where you feel most comfortable.

You may not like it but it's all you have. You might try to rationalize all of these different reasons for why you're in the predicament you are in but eventually you come to the realization that you need to make a change.

So after you've decided that you want to make a change. What do you do?

There's no easy way around it. You have to make the decision to be the person you want to be and live as such. Nobody is going to hold your hand and bring you to the place you want to be. You have to reach between your legs and find your balls. Once you find your balls you have to confidently pursue your vision of becoming the man you want to be.

Your end goal should be to work on your holistic game enough that you are competent in each and every aspect. Evaluate where you are at and determine what necessary steps you need to take to becoming a more attractive male.

First off, you should identify your negative and positive traits.

Then write down the types of attributes you would like to acquire and find a role model who has these traits. Find out how they conduct themselves and how they developed their attitude. A great place to start is by looking at biographies of great men or observing people who have these attributes that you admire.

The first and immediate change you can make is on your physical appearance:

• Throw away the knitted sweater your aunt made for you four Christmas's ago and update your wardrobe.
• Get a stylish haircut, smile more, and essentially make yourself look good.
• When you start looking good you start feeling good.

If your conversational skills aren't so proficient then go out and start talking to strangers. Growing up, many of us were told to avoid strangers but it is essential to becoming more socialized and likable. Engage yourself in social environments with lots of people so that you can cultivate a healthy social circle.

There are plenty of friendly people out there who can help you get more comfortable in social settings.

These are just a few examples of what you can do to improve yourself immediately. The path to becoming the man you want to be starts the moment you decide to make this change.

It's not tomorrow or next week.

It's TODAY.

Or it will be never because you will be making a lifetime of excuses not to change because of fear and self-loathing.

You have to overcome your limiting beliefs of what is possible. Don't let anyone else convince you that you are less than what you believe yourself to be.

Live the life of the man you want to be. You may not feel too congruent with the new attitude and look you will develop but you will definitely experience some success. Success brings confidence and competence. Begin to do things that will fit your new lifestyle.

If you've been playing video games and watching TV for your whole life then you may want to consider adopting some new hobbies. If you want to be more adventurous then start doing adventurous activities like rock climbing. If you want to be more cultured then start exploring new places, read about different topics and go to places where you can talk to people about it.

You don't have to completely change yourself, but once you go past your comfort zones you can start to blend together all of the positive attributes that make you who you are. Experience heavily influences how you conduct yourself and when you create those experiences you become more authentic.

You have to be committed to living the life of the person you want to be. That should be easy if you have the right reasons for wanting to make the change. Regardless, if you get off of your ass and do something about it then you're on the right track. Your life is what you make of it and with the right guidance and hard work you can reach your goals.

To command respect you have to give yourself respect. To be an interesting person you have to feel that you are interesting. It doesn't start with people giving you the validation of being interesting or having them respect you. You must be the leader in how you want others to perceive you. This is something that you simply accept as truth and get experience in making it a belief.

The only thing holding you back is yourself.

• Are you living the life of the person you want to be?
• Are you satisfied with the quality of your relationships?
• Are you living the lifestyle that you want to be living?

Remember, nobody can answer that question but you.

When you find the answer to these questions, start making a change now.



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