There should be a big announcement tomorrow, but first I wanted to give you this video testimonial about our ABCs of Attraction bootcamp. Kai here took the NYC bootcamp with Justice (read his written testimonial here) and was pleased to do an honest video review of his experience.

• NEW YORK - LIMITED EDITION Johnny Wolf Bootcamp 03/06-03/08
• NEW YORK: Special Bootcamp 5/8-5/10, 2009

Labels: Video Reviews

Happy Chinese New Year! It's the Year of the Ox so what will YOU do to make your new year more happy, fullfilling, and prosperous?

Here's a testimonial by Justice who just recently took our NYC bootcamp. He's empowering himself and taking charge of his dating lifestyle, options, and choices. His Valentine's Day is going to be a hit, but what about yours?

• NEW YORK - LIMITED EDITION Johnny Wolf Bootcamp 03/06-03/08
• NEW YORK: Special Bootcamp 5/8-5/10, 2009

"Overall it was a really cool, really positive experience, and I absolutely recommend it."
-Justice (NYC)

I took the January NYC bootcamp with JT and Will. Overall it was a really cool, really positive experience, and I absolutely recommend it for anyone who is thinking about doing this.

The main 5 things I got out of it were:

1. Having a much better understanding of what was working and not working with my approaches - I've been ok at approaching girls at bars in the past but it's really been hit or miss; sometimes I would do well and sometimes I would be awful, and I couldn't figure out why.

I thought it had to do with what openers I was using but I realized after this course that it really has much more to do with body language; i.e. sometimes I was approaching with good body language and sometimes I wasn't. That realization made it much easier for me to focus in on this area and practice. I can't say my approaches are perfect but even last weekend (the week after the bootcamp) I could tell that I was improving a lot.

"JT has this whole [ABC] model... [which] I thought was pretty dumb.... [until] I began to realize what the model was about... understanding the model helps you understand what stage you are currently in and what steps you need to get to the next stage."

2. Understanding the flow/rhythm of an interaction - JT has this whole model of the order you're supposed to do stuff in (ABCDEF, its on the website) which to be honest when I first read about I thought was pretty dumb. I felt the model was overly mechanical and unnecessarily confining, and wasn't planning on adopting it.

But over the course of the weekend as JT explained it and I started thinking about it in the context of my approaches and past dating experience I began to realize what the model was all about. It's not that you have to necessarily go through every interaction in that order (in fact, my best approach of the weekend was one where the girl was into me from the get go and so we basically started at D); rather, understanding the model helps you understand what stage you are currently in and what steps you need to take to get to the next stage.

For example, if you are still in approach stage and haven't built any initial interest, there's not much point in telling comfort stories. Alternately, if you are already in stages D or E then you should be looking for how to push things forward (more physical/sexual escalation, extraction, etc) rather than reverting back to stage B or C. I've been on a good number of dates and this was probably the biggest thing I was messing up.

3. Refining my stories - I've always been good at telling funny and interesting stories, and there's a fair amount of stuff going on in my life that I use to demonstrate high value. This is something I'd sort of figured out on my own in the past (i.e. if I got a girl to the point where I could start telling her stories about myself then I knew I was in good shape), but working with JT really helped push it to another level.

I realized that...

a) my stories are way too long, especially in a bar environment,

b) while some of them are funny and interesting, they don't necessarily trigger any emotional responses (I wasn't describing how the events of my stories made me feel, which is super important), and

c) that I could get better at creating story 'hooks' such that I could manouver any conversation into one of my stories.

I applied this to great effect last night when I met a very attractive girl and quickly hooked into a funny story about my theater days back in college, which I could tell she was impressed by.

"Before the bootcamp I was doing ok with asian girls but I was absolutely atrocious when it came to talking to white girls, which I knew was purely a confidence/mental block issue. Going through the bootcamp, I approached so many sets (and had a number of good ones, all with white girls) that pretty soon I completely forgot about my own limiting belief and was approaching white girls with much greater ease and comfort."

4. Getting over white girl fear - I can't overemphasize the importance of this one. Before the bootcamp I was doing ok with asian girls but I was absolutely atrocious when it came to talking to white girls, which I knew was purely a confidence/mental block issue. Going through the bootcamp, I approached so many sets (and had a number of good ones, all with white girls) that pretty soon I completely forgot about my own limiting belief and was approaching white girls with much greater ease and comfort.

I was a bit worried that this new confidence would rub off after the bootcamp ended, but this last weekend I went out and approached a bunch of mostly white people and had some really great interactions. This by itself was worth the price of admission for me.

5. Having people to sarge with - I'm in a weird situation where most of my really close friends all have awesome natural/social circle game, so they're all doing great with women but simultaneously don't feel the need to go to bars and do pickup. I would periodically just go out by myself and walk into a random bar, but it was really tough to solo sarge and I always felt like an idiot.

Now, knowing there are other alums out there doing this stuff, I'm much more confident that I won't waste any weekends not stepping up my game.

"I could keep raving about this but I don't want to sound like I'm trying to sell something, because I'm not."

I could keep raving about this but I don't want to sound like I'm trying to sell something, because I'm not.

In fact, part of me hopes that other people don't do bootcamps because it means less competition for me. But at the end of the day, I genuinely want everyone to improve themselves, and I think this is a great way to do it.

- Justice (New York City)

To see our upcoming bootcamps, check out our complete schedule!

UPCOMING EVENTS:

• PUA All Star Starter Workshop: LOS ANGELES 2/6 - 2/9
• SAN FRANCISCO - LIMITED EDITION Johnny Wolf Bootcamp 02/27-03/01
• NEW YORK - LIMITED EDITION Johnny Wolf Bootcamp 03/06-03/08
• SYDNEY, AUSTRALIA: Special Bootcamp 7/17-7/20, 2009
• VANCOUVER CANADA: Special Bootcamp 8/21-8/24 2009

Labels: Justice, New York City, Reviews, Testimonial, William

This is Kevin Feng speaking to you from the Los Angeles office... So a lot of things have changed in the past couple weeks and I just wanted to take some time updating you on whats new with me and what's fresh at the glorious ABCs of Attraction.


As you've probably noticed, we've got a fresh new face finally with the ABCs of Attraction with our Brand New Website. We've had an increasing demand for our products and we've been doing our best to be really pro-active with keeping up.

But most importantly, we have a new TOLL FREE number and you can now contact us at our new office line at 1-(888)-689-GAME.

Its great talking to future Alumni and helping guys make an informed decision about their bootcamp choice by sharing my experiences with you from fledgling newbie to Full-Time PUA. So if you have any questions, feel free to email me at kevin.feng@abcofattraction.com or call me at the home office at 1-(888)-689-GAME.

As for being the ABCs' Office Rep, I have had the profound privelege of talking to guys not simply around the country, but around the globe as far away as Australia (whaddup Minh!). What I'm trying to get at is that it's great hearing from all of you, it's great hearing from all my Asian brothers and the progress they've made.

As a matter of fact, spending time on the phone not only keeps my experiences in erspective, but it also allows me to give back what I've been so lucky to have been given by default.

I recently spoke with a client in our phone consultation who was absolutely paralyzed by approach anxiety. I saw some of his photos online and quite frankly, he was a pretty good looking guy, but the absolute terror of approaching women just totally undermined his ability at pick up.

It totally reminded me of the first couple times I went out in field myself. I stood at the corner of the bar holding my beer in front of me like an absolute douchebag. After a some talking and telling him how painful my first approaches were out and how I barrelled past the pain of uncertainty and rejection, he was out opening sets like a champ, not necessarily F-closing every set, but the attitude for victory- that FIRE IN THE BELLY- was set into place.

Another guy I talked recently to almost opted out of the bootcamp (HUGE MISTAKE!) he signed up for because he was afraid of confronting his fears with women. He kept making excuses but it was really clear cut that he was trying to avoid the inevitable. Again, he was going through the same problems I had once been going through.

I remember, almost 2 years ago, I began reading about the game. I kept reading, reading, and then read some more. I realized at certain point that I wasn't going to learn the stuff simply by reading about and that my self-reservations had gotten the best of me.

After I told him about my own experiences of being LOST IN THE PICK-UP WILDERNESS, he realized the fault in his ways, took the bootcamp and couldn't believe he had almost opted out.

And speaking of journeys, it's been an incredible ride so far for me. I mean after training with the top guys in the community, I've gone from n00b to doing the PUA All Star Starter Workshop next week!


I mean, can you imagine yourself at a posh Hollywood club with the lights flashing, the speakers blaring, the sexy women dancing and rolling DEEP with the top dogs themselves? The Pick Up Gods like Mystery, Matador, Lovedrop, Styles, and- of course- the Asian Playboy!

Check out my blog to see videos and pictures of us!

But you know what, here I am rolling deep in Hollywood with the Top Dawgs as well as being the Office Rep and Approach Coach in Training for the ABCs of Attraction. And all I had to do was take that first step- getting someone to help me.

I don't want anyone thinking I've gotten a big head or anything with all this VH1 stuff, the truth is, I put in the exact hard work and am on an even playing field as everyone else. Yeah, I was on TV, but that fame was fleeting and short lived.

Landing the show was literally a 1 in a MILLION chance and somehow I got it.

I was only on for 2 episodes! Count em, TWO episodes before I get kicked off and totally humilated on NATIONAL TELEVISION.

And the way I got here was by working hard, taking chances, and doing my best to make myself into a better man and pick-up artist.

In other words, it's been a rush.

And I am so grateful for having taken that FIRST step where I forced myself to DIG DEEP and ADMIT to myself that I had a PROBLEM. I mean, you guys know EXACTLY what my problems were! Hell, all my faults were on NATIONAL TELEVISION for everyone to make fun of me and my mistakes!

You HAVE to be able to put aside your EGO if you want to ever get good in life as well as pick-up.

Whether you want to call us at 1-(888)-689-GAME, or email at kevin.feng@abcofattraction.com, or simply buy your bootcamp ticket straight away, don't let indecision and fear hold you back from living a life free of anxiety and filled with dating beautiful women!

Sincerely,
K-Feng out!
The K-Feng Chronicles

P.S. Look, mom, I didn't even cuss once! :-)

UPCOMING EVENTS:

• PUA All Star Starter Workshop: LOS ANGELES 2/6 - 2/9
• SAN FRANCISCO - LIMITED EDITION Johnny Wolf Bootcamp 02/27-03/01
• NEW YORK - LIMITED EDITION Johnny Wolf Bootcamp 03/06-03/08
• SYDNEY, AUSTRALIA: Special Bootcamp 7/17-7/20, 2009
• VANCOUVER CANADA: Special Bootcamp 8/21-8/24 2009

Labels: Approach Anxiety, Approach Coach, Australia, Free Phone Consultation, Inner Game, Kevin Feng, Melbourne, PUA All Star Bootcamp

Johnny Wolf here...
This is kind of top secret, but have you ever wondered who are the TOUGHEST students in the seduction community are?

I've never talked about this publicly before, but a lot of our students are inexperienced. Emotionally clumsy, or extremely ignorant with women and with social skills in general.

As some of you guys know a lot of top pick up instructors will help each other out and approach coach or tag along on other bootcamps. I've done so with Adam Lyons, David Wygant, Vince Kelvin, Sinn, and some other friends I have in the community.
So anyways, every time someone has ever helped me out or met my students they always say:


ROFL. Oh god, that's funny. Give me a minute here to compose myself, LOL. Here's the thing, I laugh because EVERY weekend we have tough students that we have to:

1. Deprogram their limiting beliefs
2. Help them conquer their anxieties (approach and sexual)
3. Help them get CONCRETE results in the field
4. Do so in a constructive and long-term sustainable manner
5. And all within a mere 3 days

I remember one famous instructor (not any of the above, mind you, but you'd recognize the name) getting all red in the face and screaming in frustration at this poor shy guy who was too terrified to do any approaches at all. And this coach is one of the elite guys who's known- like us- for getting positive results.

And here he is getting frustrated with a student with the problem of shyness and Approach Anxiety, which is an issue we have learned to effectively deal with because it affects many of our clients.

See, for us at the ABCs, we ALWAYS have at least one guy with massive approach anxiety, even though we explicitly tell people to do the newbie mission and pre-homeworks before hand so it will be out of the way. And students always have a hard time DHVing themselves because there usually isn't much going on in their lives besides school or work.

And none are comfortable going sexual.

That's a NORMAL bootcamp for us, which means guys like JT and myself ALWAYS have to be on point and on top of our Game to help our clients out. To get the amazing results that we've become famous for in 100s of our bootcamp reviews and testimonials.

While guys like David Wygant will typically get one multi-millionaire, a successful attorney or business man, a CEO of some big company, and a male model. Adam Lyons gets a younger crowd but still guys that are already considered cool guys, with a lot going on for them. He'll have a lead singer from a local rock band, an advertising executive, and everyone will be fairly good looking and talkative.

So why is it that we get the hardest students?

To be fair, maybe once a month we do get one student that is relatively easy to work with but 9 out of 10 of our students:

1. Speak English as a second language
2. Are virgins or otherwise have very limited sexual experience
3. Live with their parents still
4. Have financial issues
5. Have never cold approached
6. Have never dated outside their race or at all
7. Read WAAAAY too much PUA/Seduction material than is good for them
8. Really old or really young
9. Are really critical and negative on themselves
10. And none of them have ever looked like male models

We get these students because, they know we can help them, and they know that both myself and JT "Asian Playboy" as well as the other coaches on the team have been there, and grew up with the same difficulties and negative things holding us back.


I guess word got around and guys that think they're hopeless and unfixable, know that we're their BEST hope. From helping an inexperienced virgin like Gatsby get de-virginized to helping the almost forty Yellowcab have the kind of threesome experience that you can only read about in Penthouse letters, the proof- as JT always says- is in the pudding!

Honestly, I would much rather have five students in a bootcamp who all have six packs, exciting careers, and lifestyles to match, but at the same time, it's a lot more rewarding to turn a guy from zero to hero...they appreciate it more, and it feels good to change someone's life over the course of a long weekend.

The nice thing is every bootcamp we're now getting more and more good looking, successful, and social guys as students. They still need help, but I think it's because they figure, if we can do wonders for guys that have half as much going on for them as they do, we have to know our shit!

So yeah, the unspoken secret in the industry is that we have the toughest students.


So it's time to sign up for one of our upcoming programs. If you wait too long before signing up, you may miss out on this limited opportunity as the next time the ABCs' Limited Edition Johnny Wolf bootcamps will come around is in the Summer of 09!

Warm Regards,
Johnny Wolf
The Social Secrets

UPCOMING EVENTS:

• PUA All Star Valentine's Workshop 2/6 - 2/7 (LOS ANGELES)
• SAN FRANCISCO - LIMITED EDITION Johnny Wolf Bootcamp 02/27-03/01
• NEW YORK - LIMITED EDITION Johnny Wolf Bootcamp 03/06-03/08
• SYDNEY, AUSTRALIA: Special Bootcamp 7/17-7/20, 2009
• VANCOUVER CANADA: Special Bootcamp 8/21-8/24 2009

Labels: AFC Adam Lyons, Approach Anxiety, Asian Male Sexuality, David Wygant, Inner Game, Instructor, Johnny Wolf, Sinn, Vince Kelvin

Hullo! I'm back from snowy New York City!

This week, Better Asian Man talks with JT, CEO of The ABCs of Attraction about Inner Game, and the Social Isolation of the Asian American Man.

What is the origin, and the nature of, the this social isolation?

Why do individuals born in the US generally feel its effects in a way that is more pronounced than recent immigrants?

Tune in to this week's show to find out!!

• Chapter 1: What is "The Social Isolation of the Asian American Man?"(download this chapter)


• Chapter 2: What is "The Asian Edge?" How do you use it to your advantage when meeting women?(download this chapter)


• Chapter 3: Q & A - Better Asian Man fields all of your questions about how to meet ladies -- LIVE! (download this chapter)
  
  
  
  1. "How do I know that your school (The ABCs of Attraction) is better than other schools?" - Anonymous, Austin, TX
  
  
  2. "Does this 'pick-up' stuff work for Asian American men, or is it only for white guys?" Anonymous, San Fancisco, CA
  
  
  3. "I'm getting a lot of phone numbers, but most of them are flakes. What should I do?" Baby Will, New York, NY
  
  
  4. "What is 'the fuckable line,' and how do I get myself above it?" - Ted, New York, NY
     

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Labels: Better Asian Man, Inner Game, Podcast, Social Isolation of Asian American Men, The Asian Edge, William

JT the Asian Playboy here and I'm here to tell you, with neither shame nor rancor, that for the first quarter century of my life I was a total Square (an average frustrated chump or "nice guy", if you will) who let women step all over me and use me.

It was a long road divesting myself of negative habits built from a life-time of beta behavior and socially imposed rules, but I've finally gotten to the point where I feel totally comfortable in knowing that I will NEVER have a problem finding, meeting, and dating all kinds of attractive women.... for the rest of my life. This change in mind-set and world-view began when I discovered that not only COULD I take control of my dating and sexual lifestyle but also HOW and WHY certain behaviors worked and didn't work.

Since that time, there were MANY lessons that I learned during my journey through beginner's hell. Some easily learned, but most hard-earned with sweat and no small amount of tears (and sometimes a lighter wallet).

Today, I'd like to share with you guys just one of those tough lessons:

Question: Why does an attractive woman have so many orbiters hanging around them all the time.... even while she's dating you / is your girlfriend / is your fiance / is your wife?

Answer: Because it's the only way to gain all the benefits from a guy without having to give him anything back, while simultaneously avoiding the necessity of sleeping around (or giving off the appearance of sleeping around).

This was a tough lesson for me to learn, and it took me a really long time to figure this one out. During my days as a square, as well as a small portion of my beginner's hell days, if I was dating a really attractive girl, I would experience total and complete befuddlement, emotional anguish, and frustration when I learned that the girl had orbiters.... lots of orbiters.

In my mid-20s, I dated countless women in this category who all shared these characteristics:

1. Physically attractive
2. Lots of orbiters (anywhere from 15 - 40 known orbiters, at the time that I was dating the girl)
3. Would regularly mention things that the orbiters were doing for her, including all manner of errands, driving her to various places, buying her various gifts (ranging from everyday cosmetic/hygenic items, to medium-expensive items, to very-expensive items, to highly personal mementos that were personally constructed or designed).

I just didn't understand it. I would think, "if you're dating me, and if you say that you want to be with me, then why are you accepting gifts and favors from other dudes?"

On top of not understanding, I was jealous, insecure, and just in a downward spiral of self-induced negativity as a result of it.

Thankfully, though, now that I understand the reason for this behavior, it no longer bothers me.

Think about it-- if you're an attractive girl, and you've committed yourself to dating one guy, you really have no choice as far as public appearances go. Unless you want to look like a slut, you have to keep all public appearances set up to look as though you're 100% committed to your man.

However, if you're an attractive girl, you've got lots of guys approaching you, talking to you, asking you for directions, claiming that they want to "make new friends" with you, asking you for the time, asking you to check out their new marble collection... whatever... and all under the guise of "just being friendly."

If you're with a guy already, you can't really "date" these other guys... so, what's the next best thing?

To simply give them "just enough" attention so that they'll be interested in hanging out with you in the hopes that they'll someday get with you. Along the way, if they happen to buy you stuff, do favors for you, drive you to do your various errands, and so on and so forth, that's just an added bonus for you.

Like:

1. You don't have to put out.
2. You don't have to go on dates.
3. You don't have to kiss them.
4. You don't have to do much of anything, except look pretty, act friendly and flirtatious once in a while, and then go home and make love to your boyfriend.
5. You get all the benefits of the friendship from all of those guys, with NONE of the downside of having to put out.

For an attractive girl, this is easy to pull off because there is an infinite supply of guys with no A-game who think that by pandering to a girls needs and staying in the friend zone (sometimes for multiple years!!), that they can eventually get in the girls' pants.

Now, all of this stuff that I just described here is what I observed as a habitual pattern in each of these girls that I'm referring to that I met over the course of my twenties.
True, this is only my personal sample-set, but due to the fact that:

1. They all came from different ethnic backgrounds
2. Were in different age groups,
3. Had different body shapes and sizes, and
4. Were raised in different geographic regions

Have led me to conclude that I'm pretty much on target with this. All of these things that I observed really made me upset inside because I didn't understand the motivation.

It's really the perfect system--- you get to check out other potential suitors, learn about their personalities, observe how much they're willing to do for you over an extended period of time, and you don't have to put out for them.

As I progressed with my game, the tables turned. I was in the position where I was dating a girl, and there were multiple girls who wanted to date me.

Whenever I reached a crossroads of this nature, I simply thought "what would an attractive girl do with multiple suitors? -- Make them her friends!!"

And it was like a light bulb going off in my head.

I became the attractive person, and the other girls who wanted to date me-- they're the orbiters. It's really a wonderful thing-- to be able to have droves of persons of the opposite sex constantly pining after you, calling you, giving you attention, but since you're not on the market, all you have to do is give them "just enough" to keep them interested... interested enough to be your friend.

I'm quite certain that no attractive girl thinks of it in these terms that I'm describing here, but that's effectively what is going on. The net effect remains the same whether that's the "real" reason beautiful girls do it or not. The moment you break up with her, there are always suitors (and losers) clamoring for her attention to console her for with " he's an asshole / badboy who doesn't deserve you (but I'd really like to sleep with you so that's really why I'm being nice)."

I mean, let's get real people... why would a Square be "friends" with an attractive girl for an extended period of time (in some cases, this was a period of several years with a few of the dozen or so girls that I mentioned), BUY her things (ranging from casual dinners to full blown jewelry and international holidays), drive her to Ikea to buy furniture (or hire a car service for her), run errands for her, help her with stuff, and do all manner of things that they would NEVER do for another dude even if he was your best friend?

'cuz they "just want to be friends?" HELL NO!

So, fellas, when you get to the point where you find a girl that you really like and that you want to be in an long term relationship with, go back to those other girls you once dated, and make THOSE GIRLS your friends. Female Squares. Orbiters. Whatever the hell you want to call it.

Actually, just do to them what an attractive girl would do to the guys that were sweating her

Put HER in the friend zone until it's time for you look for a new girlfriend.

Labels: Beginner's Hell, Orbiters

This week, Better Asian Man talks with ABCs' Kevin Feng about the F phase in the ABCs of Attraction structure. The FUTURE: Fun or Fake?

Do you think that you can memorize a bunch of cheesey lines, scripts, and routines off of the internet and expect to get laid? You're right! You certainly can... but there's a price to pay if you go that route.

That price includes: lots of wasted energy, lots of time spent memorizing useless shit that never really happened in real life, and a whole lot of bad karma when the girl finds out that you lied-- that you're the Fake guy. On the other hand, an alternative you may wish to consider is making yourself into the Fun guy!

How does one go about becoming the Fun guy, and what's in it for you if you do? Why is this phase of the ABCs of Attraction closely tied in with the C phase? Tune in to this week's podcast and find out!

• Chapter 1: Dating Advice - F - Fun or Fake? Which one will you be?(download this chapter)


• Chapter 2: Q & A - Better Asian Man fields all of your questions about how to meet ladies -- LIVE! (download this chapter)
  
  
  
  1. I'm trying to come up with my "demonstration of higher value" stories, but I'm just a college student. I don't have a "financial status" demonstration of higher value" story. What should I do? - Anonymous, Southern California
  
  
  2. After I approach a girl and do my opener, I just don't know where to go from there. What should I do? - Anonymous, Austin, Texas
  
  
  3. When I first meet a girl, is it ok for me to make her qualify herself to me? -- Dan, Southern California
  
  
  
  


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Labels: Better Asian Man, Kevin Feng, Lifestyle, Man Cannon, Podcast, Routines, William

I have a dog called Blondie that is the most adorably annoying dog ever. Girls that come over absolutely fall in love with her. I also have her in my cellphone so every time I number close and girls see it, they go "Awwwww! She's so CUUUUUUUUUTE!"

Now the curious thing about Blondie is that she does act like a real, neurotic blonde girl sometimes. Like a total ADD attention whore of a blonde tanorexic of a stripper kind of girl.

So, in this moment of whimsy, here's my top 10 reasons why blondie is a real blonde girl in her little doggie mind:

1. Blondie gets jealous if I pay attention to other people. Like insanely jealous.
   
2. Blondie must be bisexual because she HATES men, but absolutely loves being around other hotties.
3. Blondie is very needy and follows me from room to room to make sure I don't run out on her.
4. Blondie LOVES to play dress up and will wear anything at least once. She also loves being undressed.
   
5. Blondie's collar is actually a real choker from a real girl with fake diamonds.
   
6. Blondie jumps all over me everytime I come home like its the first time she's seen me in ages.
7. Blondie will ONLY sleep on pillows. Soft pillows at that.
   
8. Blondie always gives kisses and licks and loves tongue action.
   
9. Blondie also likes licking other girls breasts.

And the TOP reason why Blondie is a real, neurotic, attention whore of a blonde girl is...

10. You can't go direct on Blondie, you always have to go INDIRECT!

/ end humor

Labels: Blondie, Humor, Ramblings

Podcast Episode For 12/28/08: (complete episode) E - Escalation - What is sexual escalation, and why should you do it?

This week, Better Asian Man talks about the E phase in the ABCs of Attraction structure. Escalation.

Have you ever overheard one of your female friends talking about how she dropped hints for a guy, "but he just wouldn't make a move?" Well guess what... that's a textbook example of what happens when you skip the "E" phase of a romantic interaction of a girl (Escalation). The result: absolutely nothing!

It is the man's job to sexually escalate a romantic conversation with a girl. Sure, you could sit on your laurels and "hope" that you met one of those rare girls that likes to lead, but that's a mentality that is just begging for multiple consecutive repeat disappointments. I've already lived that life, and I hope that you will save yourself from repeating the same misery by tuning into the podcast today!!

• Chapter 1: Interview: What is the 8 minute short film "Snap Shot" all about? Today we talk with the film's director, Mr. Suel Kim "pronounced 'Soul'" (download this chapter)


• Chapter 2: Dating Advice - Escalation - How do you sexually escalate a conversation with a girl?(download this chapter)


• Chapter 3: Ask Better Asian Man... LIVE! (download this chapter)
  
  
  
  • "I can't afford to take a bootcamp because I'm broke and I'm still in college, and those things are MAD expensive. What should I do?" Anonymous - San Francisco, CA
  
  
  • "If I approach 2 girls, what should I do with the girl that I'm not interested in if she tries to steal the girl away from me?" Martyr, NY, NY
  
  
  • "I often prematurely eject from a conversation with a girl. What should I do?" W.H., NY, NY
  
  
  
  

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