Breaking Stereotypes vs Spitting Proper Game by Ozzie

Being stereotyped while approaching or interacting with a women from a different ethnic background can make it a little tough. Not only do you know have to game her but now you have to lift yourself out of the stereotype.
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OK so I was out with a good friend and Asian Alumni and he brought up a good point.

“ I am Asian and I don't want to come off as the stereotypical asexual Asian.”


So his point was to get sexual or hit the D phase as soon as possible this way the White girl wouldn't place him in that box. He wanted to make it clear that he was a sexual guy and not the typical stereotype.

Now in theory this is a nice idea.

If you go sexual in an interaction then you must be a sexual person, right?

Well not exactly... if we break this down we can see how this is a good and bad idea. Now we have to acknowledge 2 sides.
  1. The Identity Stereotype
  2. The Game Aspect
Being stereotyped while approaching or interacting with a women from a different ethnic background can make it a little tough. Not only do you know have to game her but now you have to lift yourself out of the stereotype.

Now here is where the Idea can seem like a good one. Let me explain...

Why would you make yourself work twice as hard when you can knock out the stereotype and focus on the game part. If you let her know that you are sexual then all you have to focus on is the game part. Sounds like a good plan from this angle right?

Well there is a difference between being asexual, not being non-sexual, being sexual and just plain horny.
Now some key game factors to remember are:
You see he was so focused on not being categorized as the typical asexual Asian that he forgot to look at everything that he was doing right. He got so caught up that he forgot the game aspect of it.
You see he was so focused on not being categorized as the typical asexual Asian that he forgot to look at everything that he was doing right. He got so caught up that he forgot the game aspect of it.

He was pushing it so fast that everything was out of sync.

Remember the key is to have tight game so that you change her view on stereotypes(value giving), don't fall into trying to change her views on a stereotype so you can game (value taking).

If you go into a interaction and are worried about being seen as non-sexual or stereotyped then you are going in beta already. You are allowing your insecurities get the best of you, your fears are motivating your interaction and not your desire to meet the women of your dreams.The goal of spiting game isn't just to show her that you are a sexual person.

Everyone should game as of there was/is no such thing as stereotypes.

Take it step by step and game properly.

Life, Women, Passion!
Ozziesaurus Mex
The Latino Gentleman

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