They know that despite everything, we managed not only to improve our own lives, date blonde models, and sleep with handfuls of hotties, but also we somehow managed to take guys just like them, with all their disadvantages and all and turn them into attractive, alpha males that are hugely successful with women.
Johnny Wolf here...
This is kind of top secret, but have you ever wondered who are the TOUGHEST students in the seduction community are?
I've never talked about this publicly before, but a lot of our students are inexperienced. Emotionally clumsy, or extremely ignorant with women and with social skills in general.
As some of you guys know a lot of top pick up instructors will help each other out and approach coach or tag along on other bootcamps. I've done so with Adam Lyons, David Wygant, Vince Kelvin, Sinn, and some other friends I have in the community.
So anyways, every time someone has ever helped me out or met my students they always say:
"Wow you got a tough batch of students this weekend, they all seem to need a lot of work...
Is that normal?"
ROFL. Oh god, that's funny. Give me a minute here to compose myself, LOL. Here's the thing, I laugh because EVERY weekend we have tough students that we have to:
- Deprogram their limiting beliefs
- Help them conquer their anxieties (approach and sexual)
- Help them get CONCRETE results in the field
- Do so in a constructive and long-term sustainable manner
- And all within a mere 3 days
I remember one famous instructor (not any of the above, mind you, but you'd recognize the name) getting all red in the face and screaming in frustration at this poor shy guy who was too terrified to do any approaches at all.
I remember one famous instructor (not any of the above, mind you, but you'd recognize the name) getting all red in the face and screaming in frustration at this poor shy guy who was too terrified to do any approaches at all. And this coach is one of the elite guys who's known- like us- for getting positive results.
And here he is getting frustrated with a student with the problem of shyness and Approach Anxiety, which is an issue we have learned to effectively deal with because it affects many of our clients.
See, for us at the ABCs, we ALWAYS have at least one guy with massive approach anxiety, even though we explicitly tell people to do the newbie mission and pre-homeworks before hand so it will be out of the way. And students always have a hard time DHVing themselves because there usually isn't much going on in their lives besides school or work.
And none are comfortable going sexual.
That's a NORMAL bootcamp for us, which means guys like JT and myself ALWAYS have to be on point and on top of our Game to help our clients out. To get the amazing results that we've become famous for in 100s of our bootcamp reviews and testimonials.
While guys like David Wygant will typically get one multi-millionaire, a successful attorney or business man, a CEO of some big company, and a male model. Adam Lyons gets a younger crowd but still guys that are already considered cool guys, with a lot going on for them. He'll have a lead singer from a local rock band, an advertising executive, and everyone will be fairly good looking and talkative.
So why is it that we get the hardest students?
To be fair, maybe once a month we do get one student that is relatively easy to work with but 9 out of 10 of our students:
- Speak English as a second language
- Are virgins or otherwise have very limited sexual experience
- Live with their parents still
- Have financial issues
- Have never cold approached
- Have never dated outside their race or at all
- Read WAAAAY too much PUA/Seduction material than is good for them
- Really old or really young
- Are really critical and negative on themselves
- And none of them have ever looked like male models
We get these students because, they know we can help them, and they know that both myself and JT "Asian Playboy" as well as the other coaches on the team have been there, and grew up with the same difficulties and negative things holding us back.
They know that despite everything, we managed not only to improve our own lives, date blonde models, and sleep with handfuls of hotties, but also we somehow managed to take guys just like them, with all their disadvantages and all and turn them into attractive, alpha males that are hugely successful with women.
I guess word got around and guys that think they're hopeless and unfixable, know that we're their BEST hope. From helping an inexperienced virgin like Gatsby get de-virginized to helping the almost forty Yellowcab have the kind of threesome experience that you can only read about in Penthouse letters, the proof- as JT always says- is in the pudding!
Honestly, I would much rather have five students in a bootcamp who all have six packs, exciting careers, and lifestyles to match, but at the same time, it's a lot more rewarding to turn a guy from zero to hero...they appreciate it more, and it feels good to change someone's life over the course of a long weekend.
Honestly, I would much rather have five students in a bootcamp who all have six packs, exciting careers, and lifestyles to match, but at the same time, it's a lot more rewarding to turn a guy from zero to hero...they appreciate it more, and it feels good to change someone's life over the course of a long weekend.
The nice thing is every bootcamp we're now getting more and more good looking, successful, and social guys as students. They still need help, but I think it's because they figure, if we can do wonders for guys that have half as much going on for them as they do, we have to know our shit!
So yeah, the unspoken secret in the industry is that we have the toughest students.
But here's another secret for you, that means ABCs Instructors are THE toughest and- in my humble opinion- ELITE group of pick-up trainers in the industry!
So it's time to sign up for one of our upcoming programs. If you wait too long before signing up, you may miss out on this limited opportunity as the next time the ABCs' Limited Edition Johnny Wolf bootcamps will come around is in the Summer of 09!
Warm Regards,
Johnny Wolf
The Social Secrets
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Labels: AFC Adam Lyons, Approach Anxiety, Asian Male Sexuality, David Wygant, Inner Game, Instructor, Johnny Wolf, Sinn, Vince Kelvin
