I'm a little behind putting up the latest Better Asian Man podcasts, so here are two for the price of one! They cover the B and D phases of the ABCs of Attraction model where B is for Be In the Moment (Banter & Buying Temperature) and D is for Dominant (Direct & Disqualify).
NOVEMBER 30, 2008: Better Asian Man talks about the "B" in the ABC's of Attraction structure: Bantering, Buying Temperature, and Being In the Moment.
Why do some Asian guys get "stuck" in this phase of a romantic interaction? Why is it important to know how to banter and make small talk with a girl? What can you do to improve your bantering skills? Tune in as Better Asian Man discusses these, and a few other topics on the Better Asian Man Podcast!
- Chapter 1: Why is 8Asians.com one of William's favorite blogs? : A talk with Ernie Hsiung, Editor, (download this chapter)
- Chapter 2: The "B" Phase of the ABCs of Attraction Structure: Bantering, Buying Temperature, and Being in the Moment. (download this chapter)
- Chapter 3: Ask Better Asian Man (download this chapter)
- "I hear guys complain about me dating white guys, but when I point out that there are some Asian guys dating ONLY non-Asian girls, I get shouted down. Isn't that a double standard?" - Jane
- "William: what is your take on how to be a good wingman? Do you go in simultaneously with your wingman, or do you wait a few minutes and then join him?" - Straycat, Las Vegas, NV
- "How do I handle the particular shit tests that I've been subjected to? They are..." - Ted, New York, NY
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Podcast Episode For 12/7/08: (complete episode) Direct Interest - When is it ok to bring up intimate topics of conversation?
This week, Better Asian Man talks about the D phase in the ABCs of Attraction structure. Direct Interest.
When you first meet a girl, it is perfectly ok for you to bring up intimate topics of conversation. But how? And what would be considered "too intimate" for a first encounter? Tune in to this week's podcast to find out!
- Chapter 1: Direct Interest - When is it ok to bring up intimate topics of conversation with a girl? (download this chapter)
- Chapter 2: BetterAsianMan.com launches a new audio segment: The Bush. An interview with a real-life Asian guy (Vietnamese decent) who was born in Austrailia, and has the coolest Austrailian accent in the universe. (download this chapter)
- Chapter 3: Ask Better Asian Man... LIVE! (download this chapter)
- "The more I date, the more I feel like I'm becoming cynical. I mean, I've seen some pretty normal girls do some really selfish things. I only started feeling this way after I started hooking up with more girls after taking my bootcamp. Is this natural?" H - San Francisco
- "I'm in college now, and I like one of my female friends. I've been friends with her since high school. It makes me feel uncomfortable when I hear her talk about how good looking other guys are. What should I do?" X. - , Conneticut
- "Last night I went to a party. I saw lots of girls that I thought were attractive, but I thought it would be awkward to go across the room to talk to a girl right in front of all of her friends. Plus, if I got dissed, all of MY friends would see it and make fun of me. Help!" P. , Texas
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