But in order to achieve the same results, YOU have to have discipline and persistence, ingenuity and innovation, work ethic and related behavioral characteristics that set us "hard gainers" apart from the "easy gainers."There are generally two types of "Pick Up Artists" in my experience. Those who are Intuitonists and those who are Technicians. The supposed "Naturals" who flow with the emotion with "No Game" Game and the more analytically "Brainy" based Game that breaks down social interactions into discrete elements.
This discussion has raged throughout the seduction community for as long as anyone can remember.
Who is better, the natural or the unnatural? The gifted or the practiced?
There are benefits and downfalls to each persona, and that’s why at the ABC’s of Attraction, we teach both methods in a HOLISTIC manner that's designed to bring inexperienced beginners to higher levels of the socially, emotionally, and sexually experienced.
The intuitionally gifted usually come into the Community with some amount of experience and it would be impractical to assume that each and every student that takes one of our bootcamps is at an advance level. Usually it's the reverse. For many of the students we teach, a systematic approach is definitely preferable at the beginning.
A lot of students come to us with absolutely no knowledge of what to do to obtain or even speak to a women, thus telling them to “turn up the charm” will do little more then cause blank stares. However, a step-by-step formula will give them a protocol that they can call upon time and again, until it feels natural. For Asian men in particular, a procedure that requires homework and practice is usually ideal.
This allows us to slowly develop a more Technical based Game Plan that EVOLVES into the more Intuitional style. We go from basic lectures to advance drills that pushes the student while he operates within a safety net.
But after they get the system down, how do they match up with your average natural?
What we see in many naturals is a built-in ability to charm and attract women. They can attract, pump buying temperature, and connect with women without relying on any scripted material. And while it seems effortless, people with innate charisma actually utilize many of the same tactics that fall into a systematic approach. In the end, most students of pick-up aim to have this seamless aspect to their pick up.
At the ABC’s, we’ve broken down this method and come up with a way to set our students on a path to learn to vibe, joke and sexually arouse a woman without having to use any lines or gambits.
On Day 2 and Day 3 of the ABCs lectures and drills, we start to emphasize the importance of being and convey DIRECT SEXUALITY as well as the High Value Alpha Male Lifestyle. Ultimately, being a Pick Up Artist version 1.0 just means you're a funny, interesting, even attractive guy. But not the man that women are TURNED ON by or want IN THEIR LIVES.
So, which of these works better?
From what we’ve seen it really depends on the student. Someone who is comfortable telling jokes and carries a lot of “passive value” may blossom if taught how to channel his energy in the proper direction. A person who needs more direction will probably benefit from a more systematic approach.
But in order to achieve the same results, YOU have to have discipline and persistence, ingenuity and innovation, work ethic and related behavioral characteristics that set us "hard gainers" apart from the "easy gainers."
In other words, we teach success through action. Not with snake oil and magic pills. It's a long journey to go from A to F, but it is worth it if you want to make a difference in your life.
There will be a FREE San Francisco Reunion Bash this upcoming weekend for all ABCs Graduates on Sunday, Sept 21st. Hang out with your fellow Brothers and Instructors alike!
And if you're interested in taking the San Fran ABCs Certified Bootcamp from Sept 19-21, sign up here!
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