Here is an Overview of the ABCs of Attraction Basics, part 1 (given at the Melbourne Australia Lair).
A is for ASSUME. ASSUME you are ATTRACTIVE even before you APPROACH her. You do this by increasing your PASSIVE VALUE through Body Language, Facial Expressions, etc.
B is for BE IN THE MOMENT. Have fun and BE IN THE MOMENT by using BANTERING to increase her BUYING TEMPERATURE. You are responsible for your own emotional state and thus her emotional stimulation.
C is for COMPLIANCE. Build her COMPLIANCE by providing EMOTIONAL & PHYSICAL COMFORT and then CONNECT deeply with her. The ABC portion means you're a good conversationalist and have built GENERAL ATTRACTION.
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