The "Mystery" Attraction Switch... From a Girl's Blog

Another good post from the Don Juan Forums, this time by Godsgiftowomen.

Basically, Scarcity and Mystery can go hand in hand. When I previously stated that a girl (once you know you have her hooked) should EARN your rapport, it also goes with EARNING your time, attention, and affection. Don't smother her and don't let her smother you. Pace out your dates or otherwise that flame of attraction can die down due to too much oxygen.

I also agree with his thoughts on action dates versus standard dates. Get the adrenaline up and so does the girl's horniness. Anyways, she posted on her blog about Godsgiftowomen, who incidentally also had access to her blog... her private thoughts about him.

As you all (SHOULD) know you should go out with a chick ONLY once a week for the first few dates. Do you want a hot girl to be obsessed with you? Read Anti-Dump's Machine located in the DJ Bible and use the techniques.

I've only gone out w/ her twice so far and check out what she has to say...

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...a certain hot guy asked me to be his valentine for valentines day!!!!!!! i am like soo happy if i had to pick anyone to spend it with i would pick him hands down just because when i hang out with him its fricken FUN!, i sure cant wait for tuesday the 14th.....not only because its valentines day..BUT because i will get to see JC, i wont see him for like fricken 2 weeks , thats why i so cant wait for valentinesday...its going to be awesome this year...well i gotta go study but YAY!!! i am on like cloud 9 right now!!!
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Notice what is written in bold. (Normally I wouldn't go two weeks without a date but I had things to do one weekend.) When you only hang w/ a girl once a week she will miss you and want to see you. This is why future dates are even more fun because they look forward to it so much. You're also mysterious and not like other guys. She will wonder if you are with other girls (which you should be!) and realize that you are the prize.

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I fricken LOVE laser tag, i had never played before but JC fricken took me and my sisters and linday he got us in for free because he has the hook up, but man it was fun...granted he cheated because he like got on top of me and shot me like 300000 times but he still got his, he got killed the most MUHAHAHAHAHAHA. he is funner...and yes JC if you read this FUNNER is my word...but yeah he is funner then all the guys around!
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This is why action dates are better than boring dinner or movie dates on the first few dates!

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now with me being "obsessed" with him I shouldnt have been so excited that he called me, but however i was, because we like never talk, only once a week when he calls me to hang out, and we also see eachother once a week, so as you all know i am "obsessed" with him,and i dont want to sound "obsessed" over this kid, even though ALL girls should know him because...well......he is JC!
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Now I do admit with this girl that I have chatted on the phone with her a couple times in-between dates. But even so look what she wrote above in bold. As long as you stay true to the Law of Mystery (be mysterious) you can bend the rules a little bit.


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