The Asian Playboy

Sydney, Australia, November/December 2009. This coming November & December the Australian PUA Community, will host the country’s biggest event on how to attract women, the “Australia Attraction Master Class Tour” featuring several of the world’s best Attraction Coaches and Pick Up Artists (PUAs) in action.

The event, aimed at turning its target audience -- 25-40 year-old young men -- into genuine lady killers, will take place in Sydney and Melbourne all day Saturday and Sunday

During a weekend extravaganza, the men of Australia will have the unique opportunity to hear about the “field” experience of the world’s leading dating, attraction and seduction experts. Super hot topics like singles’ secrets on how to start a conversation, to how to build attraction, close the deal and the ultimate tips to make a women want you will fill the program.

For the uninitiated, all these coaches and experts are man who strives for better romantic and sexual success with women through self-improvement. PUAs and their supporters form a subculture called the “Attraction Community.”

“The conference is going to be unprecedented and should really put the Australian attraction community on the map. Attraction coaching is a billion dollar industry in the U.S. and now Europe is catching on. For Australia, this is the first such event,” says Gary Goodbloke, Media Coordinator, Get Hitched.

This star-quality line up of international Guest Speakers, means Australian men will have a chance to undergo a life-changing transformation as the stars unveil their products and packages teaching men how to connect with beautiful women face-to face.

The International lineup of Speakers includes Vince Kelvin the world famous superstar Pick Up Artist, JT the Asian Playboy the Worlds #1 Dating Coach for Asian Men, Badboy Seduction Guide from Europe, Pickup Asia gives you the insights into Speed Seduction from Hong Kong and the charismatic Will H from the USA.

The website (www.attractionmasterclasstour.com) boasts several interesting video’s showing how men can approach women in every situation.

Join the Australian Attraction Community on Facebook on the “Attraction Master Class” Group.

Men looking to enhance their dating skills just before the festive season in 2009 are encouraged to take advantage of the unique event via www.social-e-ticket.com.au and Moshtix.

The Master Class will take the form of two conferences, the first in Melbourne on 21st and 22nd November 2009 and the second in Sydney on 5th and 6th December 2009.

For more information please go to the website: www.attractionmasterclasstour.com

Labels: Attraction Master Class, Australia, PUA Summit, Sydney

Podcast Episode For 11/15/09: (complete episode) : Dating Advice : F - Fun or Fake? The Asian American Man's Rite of Passage according to The Asian Playboy.

• Chapter 1: Interviews: A talk with an ABCs of Attraction "12 Weeks of Fury" Student (download this chapter)


• Chapter 2: Dating Advice : F - Fun or Fake? The Asian American Man's Rite of Passage. "What are the 3 things it takes for a boy to turn into a man?" (download this chapter)

Listen to this week's podcast now.


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Labels: 10 Pillars of Inner Strength, Manhood, Podcast

Watch me on Chicago TV on Comcast 248, RCN 175 and WOW 35 on Sunday from noon till 2pm, and will repeat at 6 to 8 pm. My interview will take place during the first hour of the show.

In the meantime, you can watch this PUA Super Trailer until the TV interview goes live and we can put it up:

Labels: Announcement, Video Reviews

We all get caught up in our own comfort zones and sometimes it works out for us.

But the question you have to ask yourself is, "Have I reached my potential?"

See if this describes YOU:

1. You might be the kind of guy that makes a New Year's resolution but ditches the plan after a few weeks or months.
2. You may have wanted to talk to the attractive woman at the grocery store but didn't because you were afraid of being rejected.
3. You just may be the kind of guy that doesn't know what he wants but knows enough that he wants to make a change.

The opinion people have of you may not be congruent with the view you have of yourself. It's very common for a group of friends to put your social status at the bottom of the totem pole because that is where you feel most comfortable.

You may not like it but it's all you have. You might try to rationalize all of these different reasons for why you're in the predicament you are in but eventually you come to the realization that you need to make a change.

So after you've decided that you want to make a change. What do you do?

There's no easy way around it. You have to make the decision to be the person you want to be and live as such. Nobody is going to hold your hand and bring you to the place you want to be. You have to reach between your legs and find your balls. Once you find your balls you have to confidently pursue your vision of becoming the man you want to be.

Your end goal should be to work on your holistic game enough that you are competent in each and every aspect. Evaluate where you are at and determine what necessary steps you need to take to becoming a more attractive male.

First off, you should identify your negative and positive traits.

Then write down the types of attributes you would like to acquire and find a role model who has these traits. Find out how they conduct themselves and how they developed their attitude. A great place to start is by looking at biographies of great men or observing people who have these attributes that you admire.

The first and immediate change you can make is on your physical appearance:

• Throw away the knitted sweater your aunt made for you four Christmas's ago and update your wardrobe.
• Get a stylish haircut, smile more, and essentially make yourself look good.
• When you start looking good you start feeling good.

If your conversational skills aren't so proficient then go out and start talking to strangers. Growing up, many of us were told to avoid strangers but it is essential to becoming more socialized and likable. Engage yourself in social environments with lots of people so that you can cultivate a healthy social circle.

There are plenty of friendly people out there who can help you get more comfortable in social settings.

These are just a few examples of what you can do to improve yourself immediately. The path to becoming the man you want to be starts the moment you decide to make this change.

It's not tomorrow or next week.

It's TODAY.

Or it will be never because you will be making a lifetime of excuses not to change because of fear and self-loathing.

You have to overcome your limiting beliefs of what is possible. Don't let anyone else convince you that you are less than what you believe yourself to be.

Live the life of the man you want to be. You may not feel too congruent with the new attitude and look you will develop but you will definitely experience some success. Success brings confidence and competence. Begin to do things that will fit your new lifestyle.

If you've been playing video games and watching TV for your whole life then you may want to consider adopting some new hobbies. If you want to be more adventurous then start doing adventurous activities like rock climbing. If you want to be more cultured then start exploring new places, read about different topics and go to places where you can talk to people about it.

You don't have to completely change yourself, but once you go past your comfort zones you can start to blend together all of the positive attributes that make you who you are. Experience heavily influences how you conduct yourself and when you create those experiences you become more authentic.

You have to be committed to living the life of the person you want to be. That should be easy if you have the right reasons for wanting to make the change. Regardless, if you get off of your ass and do something about it then you're on the right track. Your life is what you make of it and with the right guidance and hard work you can reach your goals.

To command respect you have to give yourself respect. To be an interesting person you have to feel that you are interesting. It doesn't start with people giving you the validation of being interesting or having them respect you. You must be the leader in how you want others to perceive you. This is something that you simply accept as truth and get experience in making it a belief.

The only thing holding you back is yourself.

• Are you living the life of the person you want to be?
• Are you satisfied with the quality of your relationships?
• Are you living the lifestyle that you want to be living?

Remember, nobody can answer that question but you.

When you find the answer to these questions, start making a change now.



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Labels: 10 Pillars of Inner Strength, Holistic Game

Hello true believers!

I have exciting news. News that, well, just plain makes ME nervous and my palms more than a little sweaty...

I'M GOING TO BE ON TV, BABY!

That's right, on Feb 14, 2010, I will be appearing on a segment of the popular news program CITYLINE, (WCVB TV/ ABC Affiliate) during the Boston Bootcamp!!! This is a two hour Sunday morning show where I will be interviewed by host Karen Holmes Ward.

I will be discussing the ABCs of Attraction's PROVEN method of helping men transition from Geeks to the Social Elite, and reveal some new insights into my patented technique of attraction. (i.e. if you get a chance to see this, it’s something you WON’T want to miss.)

So as a personal favor to me, I am asking each and every one of you to not only watch me in all my shining glory, join us on Facebook and click that "INVITE PEOPLE TO COME" and inform all your friends. Let's make it a global tv sitdown!

You will have my PERSONAL deepest thanks and gratitude whether you do or do not. Neither my company nor myself could not have gotten to where we are now if it wasn't for the fierce and loyal dedication of all my fans and friends and everyone else who's come to us for help in their life.

So thank you!

Now, as you all know, for more than 5 years, the ABCs' has utilized the most CUTTING-EDGE material out there to turn average guys into overnight DON JUANS, and more and more people are picking up on the trend.

That said, we are expecting UNPRECEDENTED demand for our services after the airing of this and other television appearances in the near future.

What's that?!

Future media appearances?!?!

You betcha, good things just don't come in ones. I'm also going to be scheduled to be on TV yet AGAIN after this one!

Of course, my first priority is to my loyal ABC’s readers. So I am offering you the opportunity to snag some of the last seats in our legendary bootcamps before they sell out completely.

And for those SUPER-SERIOUS about change, there are still a few spots left in our mind-bending 12 Weeks of Fury program – where I personally oversee your growth and development as a pickup artist.

So don’t forget to tune in for the show as well as future exciting announcements as blaze a new trail for Asian men everywhere!

See you on the small screen,
JT the Asian Playboy

Labels: Announcement, Video

From the 2009 PUA Summit, some of the world's most famous trainers like AFC Adam Lyons (PUATraining) and Vince Kelvin (Seduction Coaching) as well as reknown sex coach Daniel Rose (Sex God Method) talk about everybody's favorite Asian man's dating coach!



P.S. Watch the controversial video in question that Adam is talking about!

Labels: AFC Adam Lyons, Daniel Rose, Video, Vince Kelvin